Time was running out for a match, but son refused to accept that his dad would die
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Abel Santiago Jr., RN, nursing supervisor at WellSpan Behavioral Health Services, was awaiting a heart and lungs transplant in March 2007. But, if he didn’t get a match within the next 72 hours, the doctors said it would be too late. |
An average of 18 people die each day waiting for organ transplants. Abel Santiago Jr., RN, was nearly one of them.
The nursing supervisor at WellSpan Behavioral Health Outpatient Services was born with a heart condition called truncus arteriosus.
“I knew I would need a transplant at some point,” Santiago explained.
During his youth he was fine, but by his 30s serious signs of trouble began. His blood-starved lungs struggled to supply his body with oxygen.
“My fingers and my face were always blue because of the low oxygenation,” he said. The future was vague, so he focused instead on the demands of work and family.
More years passed.
A pivotal moment came in November 2006. He was sitting around the dinner table with his wife and two young sons when he suffered a stroke. Time was running out. His doctors advised him that a heart transplant would no longer be enough.
“Because of the heart defect, my lungs were eventually damaged as well,” he said.
He lay in a hospital bed at Johns Hopkins, awaiting an organ donor. The right person would need to match his age, size and blood type. Days fell by, turning into weeks and months.
The need for healthy organs is tremendous. Right now, so many people are waiting they could fill two football stadiums. A new person goes on the list every 10 minutes.
Santiago’s health plummeted while he waited. In early March 2007, his doctors warned that if they didn’t get a match soon—within the next 72 hours—it would be too late.
“All my family came to say goodbye,” he remembered. “They came into my room and said goodbye, all except for my 8-year-old son. He said, ‘This isn’t going to happen. You’re not going to die. I’ll be seeing you later.’”
News of a match came the next day. He went into surgery and emerged with a new heart and lungs. He recalls seeing his son’s smile. “Told you,” the boy said.
Today, Santiago enjoys good health. He wishes he knew more about the noble person who saved his life. The donor’s family chose to remain private, so he couldn’t express his gratitude in person. Instead he wrote them two letters, hoping to soften their grief.
“I do know that this person saved not just my life, but four other people as well,” he said. “Without this gift I wouldn’t have been able to see my kids grow.”
WellSpan is a partner in the Hospital Association of Pennsylvania’s "Gift of Life" Campaign. For more information, or to register as an organ donor, visit www.donors1.org/wellspanhealth.